Tag: becoming her
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How to Find Yourself Again When You Feel Lost in Life
There are moments in life when you look at yourself and realize you don’t really know the woman looking back anymore. Not in some dramatic, movie-scene kind of way. Maybe you don’t need to find your old self. Maybe it’s time to discover who you are now. Sometimes life is actually… fine. You’re getting through…
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How to Reinvent Yourself Without Pretending to Be Someone Else
You don’t need to manufacture a new personality. You need room to discover what else is already inside you. I love the idea of reinvention. New hair. New wardrobe. New city. New habits. New career. New boundaries. New morning routine. New apartment. New standards. There is something intoxicating about deciding: I’m going to become a…
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I Had to Lose the Woman Everyone Knew to Meet the Woman I Actually Was
Nobody tells you that becoming yourself can feel like losing yourself first. There is a version of grief that comes with becoming a different woman. It isn’t always grief over a person. Sometimes you’re grieving yourself. The woman you used to be. The life she understood. The things she tolerated. The people she loved. The…
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I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore: 10 Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Old Identity
There is a particular kind of confusion that happens when you look at your own life and quietly think: I don’t know who I am anymore. Nothing about you has necessarily disappeared. Your name is still your name. Your memories are still yours. You may have the same friends, live in the same city, work…
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You Are Allowed to Learn Yourself: Why I Create Courses About Becoming, Feeling & Evolving
I think one of the strangest expectations we place on ourselves is the idea that, at some point, we are supposed to simply know how to be a person. Know how to communicate. Know how to trust ourselves. Know how to handle disappointment. Know how to love. Know how to leave. Know how to regulate…